Dr. Jane Guyn · Coming Home to Desire

More Connection and Ease. Less Stress about Intimacy.

Coming Home to Desire is a 7-module course for people rebuilding intimacy after leaving a life that told you what to think, wear, and who to love. Self-paced, private, and shame-free.

Coming Home to Desire course shown on a laptop, tablet, and phone on a warm wooden desk, with purple course branding.
Introduction video for Coming Home to Desire

What's included

Seven modules to rebuild intimacy from the body up

Warm morning sunlight streaming through a window across rumpled bed linens, representing rebuilding the felt sense of aliveness and want.
01

Charge

Rebuild the felt sense of aliveness and want that was trained out of you.

Two empty coffee cups on saucers, sitting apart on a table, representing the gap between what you were taught and what your body needs.
02

Gap

Name the distance between what you were taught and what your body actually needs.

Two cupped hands gently holding a warm glowing light, representing learning to hold pleasure and arousal without shame arriving first.
03

Capacity

Learn to tolerate pleasure and arousal without shame arriving first.

A person's bare feet stepping on a weathered wooden beam in warm sunlight, representing returning to the body as a safe place to feel.
04

Grounding

Return to your body as a safe place to feel, rather than a problem to fix.

A single lit match with smoke curling above the flame against a black background, representing the difference between real charge and sudden reactive shock.
05

Spark vs. Shock

Tell the difference between real charge and the jolt of reactivity.

A soft tasseled throw draped loosely over a woven chair on a warm terracotta patio, representing gently setting down what isn't yours to carry.
06

Load Shedding

Identify what you're still carrying — and gently set down what isn't yours.

A dark hallway with light reflecting off the floor, leading toward a bright open doorway framed by warm curtains, representing practicing beginning from want, not from duty, fear, or performance.
07

Initiation

Practice beginning from want, not from duty, fear, or performance.

Private, at your own pace

No live calls, no group pressure, no need to show up a certain way. Move through the modules on your own schedule, in your own space, with practices designed to be done privately.

Founding Cohort — Limited to 10

Join the Founding 10 at $197

Founding members get the full course for $197 — the price will be $297 when it opens to the public. Prefer to spread it out? Choose 3 payments of $67 each.

The Founding Cohort is limited to 10 spots at this reduced price. Once they’re filled, the price increases to $297.

Frequently Asked Questions

Rebuild intimacy without shame — and without figuring everything out first.